Bitcoin instant transfer

Bitcoin is a crypto-currency (check out my previous post for some more introductory thoughts) that provides many desirable properties such as decentralization, very low transaction fee, digital-native... However enabling instant payment has not been a forte of Bitcoin so far. It's very noticeable that people did even raise funds to address this problem with a trusted 3rd party setup.

In this post, I will try to describe a convention that would offer instant (1) secure (2) decentralized (3) transactions with Bitcoin (4).

Let's start by clarifying the scope of this claim:

Instant. There is no such thing as real-time on the Internet, if only because of speed of light. Here, I am considering as instant anything below 10 seconds, which would be sufficient for the vast majority of the mundane use of a currency such as shopping.
Secure. With Bitcoin, a transaction can be propagated in the network within seconds, yet, the transaction only becomes secured - aka with no further possibility of double spending - once the transaction has been included into the blockchain (6 blocks inclusion being the default of the Bitcoin client). Obviously, this requirement somewhat conflicts with the previous one, because 6 blocks represents about 1h on average (10min per block being the target speed of Bitcoin).
Decentralized. The solution to reconciliate 1 and 2 should not rely on a trusted 3rd party. I hold no grudge against BitInstant, but if a solution exists to do the same thing without middlemen, then I believe it will only make Bitcoin stronger.
Bitcoin. The solution should preserve the Bitcoin protocol as it exists today, requiring no upgrade of the community, except for those who would like to leverage instant payments. It's a convention in the usage of Bitcoin that I am referring to: it fits into the existing protocol spec. Those who don't want to follow this convention can safely ignore the whole thing.